How much happiness can money buy?

People say that money can’t buy happiness. Is this the truth or just a meaningless saying? When I think about this more, I realize not having enough money for your needs can be a source of stress. If you just 906939_smiley.jpggot laid off, for example, how can you be happy if you spend sleepless nights worrying about where to get your kids’ tuition? Isn’t the lack of money a typical reason why some couples fight? Or if you work at a job you hate just for the paycheck, won’t you be more miserable compared to someone who has enough money to invest in a business they are passionate about? True, you can borrow the cash you need from friends and relatives, but that tends to put a strain on your relationships.

I suppose money can buy some amount of happiness in the sense that you won’t have to feel stressed or worried about the basics. Here’s what some psychologists found out about the matter:

People with more money tend to be happier than those with less – but only up to a point. That is the conclusion of psychologists Ed Diener at the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign, and Martin Seligman of the University of Pennsylvania, Philadelphia, who have reviewed numerous studies looking at the psychological effects of wealth. They report that money’s impact on happiness suffers from diminishing returns: once you have enough for food and shelter, more cash doesn’t bring much extra joy.
Source: “Why money messes with your mind” NewScientist.com

While money can’t buy happiness, it can give you the security and opportunities you need for pursuing the things, relationships, and experiences that make you happy.

In my experience, this is true because having enough money for your necessities allows you to spend your time and energy on the other things that do make you happy. But once you have enough for food, rent, and the bills, acquiring more money doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll be happier. After you’ve made yourself financially secure, true happiness and joy is something that you have to create for yourself, after all.

So if I were to rewrite the saying for accuracy, it’d be: Money can buy security, but more money can’t buy happiness.

Here’s another interesting fact from the study: if you have some extra money to spend on fun things, paying for experiences rather than material things can bring more pleasure.

The researchers found that people reported “experiential purchases”, such as trips to the theatre or travel, as bringing them more happiness than material purchases such as clothes. A concrete purchase may have cost more and lasted longer but a good experience brought more pleasure.
Source: “Why money messes with your mind” NewScientist.com

I guess this means that if you do end up with some extra money that you can spend for personal rewards, you can maximize the happiness it gives you by spending it on a trip rather than an expensive watch.

What can you say about the study? Do you think it reflects your personal experience with money and happiness?

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2 comments

  1. As for me, money is a tool to enhance the life of my immediate family and my extended family. It certainly can buy you security and peace of mind knowing that you are able to afford your daughter’s basic needs. But money isn’t everything in life. One may have a lot of assets and liquid money but what is it if you have no one to share your life with.

    I’ve been at both extreme ends of the pole. Before, I was a married mother so I did have the complete family picture but we were struggling paycheck to paycheck. Was I happy? No. I was always stressed and we had money fights. We were just starting out in life with the college degrees that we have. I was a battered wife and I decided to leave my now ex-husband.

    Now, I am at the other side of the pole. I have enough money to sustain me and my daughter’s needs monthly. Plus, I am also saving. What I earn now is really enough for me to achieve my dreams and to send my daughter to a good school. I know that even without the child support, my daughter and I can live. Am I happy? Yes. Because I have the love of my daughter and it’s what keeps me going. The money that I earn now is much more meaningful because my daughter is with me. If that weren’t the case, I’d probably be lonely.

    My now ex-husband earns a lot of money working for a company in Singapore. He has bought all the material pleasures and the experiential purchases money can buy. He may be saving more than I do monthly but what the heck. He isn’t happy. He wants to borrow my daughter from me for 5 years because he misses our daughter a lot. He also told me that I can use that time to find myself. So I told him, I already found myself eons ago when I left him.

    So you see, money can’t buy happiness. What is money without love? One needs to find meaning in his or her own life and I bet you money will be more meaningful. Plus, don’t forget to thank Him who provides all our blessings.

  2. Thanks for sharing your experiences, Kaye :) You illustrated exactly the thing that the study is talking about – money can buy security, but after that, finding true happiness is up to you. I’m glad you’ve found it :)

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