This is Day #17 of “25 Days to Healthier Finances”, a series of blog posts where Frugal Pinoy readers and myself work on 1 task a day to make our financial lives better. Please stay tuned for the next installment of this series, which will be up tomorrow. Here’s today’s installment:
When it comes to time and money, we usually focus on the things we have to do. Paying the bills, finishing up that report, cleaning the house. While these things are important, we should be equally mindful of the things we shouldn’t do.
Today’s Task: Know the things that you don’t care to spend on.
It’s simple. Just jot down the expenses that really don’t matter to you. Here’s a short list of some things that don’t matter to me:
- Dining out
- Watching most films in the cinema
- Clothes and accessories (as a side effect of rarely going out)
- Cable TV
Things that matter to me:
- Books
- Good quality of food
- Maintaining a solid but beautiful house
- Hobbies such as woodworking and gardening
What does this mean? By making the list of the things that don’t matter to you, you’ll know what expense traps to avoid. For example, why would I spend P500 to try out a new restaurant when I can use that money to buy high-quality ingredients for a home cooked meal? Or, why would I spend P200 to watch a movie in a mall dahil wala lang akong magawa, when I can usually buy 5 books with that at my favorite used books store? It’s like building a list of “not-priorities”.
You can also do this exercise for a major purchase so that you won’t be distracted. When buying a new car, this may be your list of not-priorities:
- Color
- Exterior design
- Quality of speakers
By making this list before you look at cars to buy, you won’t be distracted by the bells and whistles that don’t matter to you. You won’t go “Shit, panget pala gas mileage nito, nadistract ako sa sleek, chromed-up design.” Conversely, if the exterior design matters to you the most, you won’t be distracted by sales pitches about payment terms or storage space.
When we have limited resources, we need to know the things we can “sacrifice”, and the things we don’t care about should be the first to go. That way, we know that we’re left with the things that matter.
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